by Ruchi Koval
Exhibit A:
This
week, on my blog, I engaged in very risky behavior: I addressed the
friction that exists between Reform and Orthodox Jews. After 800 views
and over 200 comments, the conversation is still going strong - and,
while I moderate comments, I have had to delete only one or two. The
rest of the comments, while of a widely diverse readership ranging from non-Jewish to Chassidic, and on issues that people feel strongly and often emotionally about, have been respectful.
Exhibit B:
I
went on Craigslist to look for a piece of furniture - apprehensively,
both since I've been nearly scammed there in the past, and due to recent
news of horrific results via that site. So when my husband and I drove
for a half hour to see the piece, part of me was nervous about what we
might find. Well, turns out the sweet retiree was just as nervous as we
were. We laughingly sealed the deal with a token $10 deposit and, with
mutual faith in humanity, agreed that we'd return in a few days with a
truck to retrieve the piece.
Exhibit C:
I
received a random email from a stranger, asking me advice. She is a
Partners-in-Torah volunteer, and, as this is new for her, had some
questions about what and how to go about this "Torah study
relationship." I responded to her email although I have no idea who she
is.
The common
thread here is: faith in humanity. I'm one of those trusting people. I
pretty much think most people are good and safe, don't particularly
worry about the odd guy in the elevator, and presume the best in the
people I meet. That doesn't mean I cheerfully pass out my social
security number or friend strangers on Facebook, and I definitely talk
to my kids about personal safety.
But essentially, my go-to internal response toward people is generally positive.
This week, for me, confirmed it.
What about you?
