Friday, May 25, 2012

10k and 401k

by Ruchi


For the first time in my life, I was in a 10k on Team JFX this past Sunday in the Cleveland Marathon.  It was an unbelievable experience.  I love trying new things and the anticipation the night before embarking on something brand-new is thrilling for me.  I had no idea what it would be like.  Here are some things that I didn't anticipate:

1. To paraphrase Michael Jackson, it doesn't matter if you walk or run.
Well, maybe for serious runners it did, but for me, it didn't.  I'm not very well-trained, and it didn't matter.  I've learned that good "runner's etiquette" is not to ask.  Asking personal deets about your 10k is like asking about your 401k!  Walk, run, start, stop, do what works for you.  Just keep trying and make it to the finish.

2. When you cross the finish line, no one knows if you were in the 10k, the half-marathon, or the full.
So a 10k is roughly 6 miles.  Half-marathon, 13.  Full:  26.  And when you cross that finish, no one knows unless you tell them.  You coulda actually slipped in 5 minutes before the end and no one would know the diff.   You know what?  It's no one else's business but yours. Only you know how hard you trained, how much you pushed, and how long you ran.  (Or if you walked.)

3.  There's a whole "marathon culture."
A couple of nights before the race, I called Kim, my runner friend, and asked her a whole bunch of questions: what if I need to drink?  Do I bring my own water?  Are there bathrooms along the way?  What's the best way to cover my head?  Sunglasses or too sweaty?  She laughed and said I reminded her of when she was becoming more observant.  How should I know people are standing there offering you drinks and you just toss the cup into the street?  (That was painful for the eternal mother in me.   Now who's gonna clean up that mess?)  My point?  We all have stuff that we're experienced at, and stuff that we're novices at.  Ask!  Find someone who likes you who has more experience, and just plain old ask.

4. Everyone's in pain the next day.
Being in a race is somewhat glamorous.  (I still won't throw out my bib.  Oh, and yes, a bib is a piece of paper with your number that you pin on your shirt.  Oh... your number... so everyone gets one when they register...wtvr...)  Everyone is so excited for you, people are impressed, folks are sponsoring you.  Then, the next day, you and everyone else in the race, is in pain.  You're sore, dehydrated and have a headache.  It's OK.  Pain is the great equalizer.  From the most well-trained runner to, well, me.  Does it mean I goofed?  Does it mean I shouldn't do it again?  Nah.  I means I'm pushing myself.  That's good.

I'm not going to tell you all to join a race.  It's not for everyone.  But I will challenge you to find something that you've never tried before, and just sign up.  It keeps you fresh and interesting. 

3,324 years ago, on Shavuot, at Mt. Sinai, the Jews signed up for Judaism, and they sure didn't know what they were getting themselves into. Who knows?  Maybe you, too, will be in pain the next day. 

That's a good thing.