Friday, March 2, 2012

The Goalie's Goal

by Rabbi Chaim Helman

Last night I gave my men's parsha class.  We touched on the concept of "Parshat Zachor" - that prior to Purim, we read aloud from the Torah the section of the evil nation of Amalek.  Amalek's essence was diametrically opposed to the message of Purim.  Purim represents finding God's hidden hand in every part of our lives, and Amalek lived to rip away that believe and attribute everything to chance.

As the Jews joyously and victoriously left Egypt, Amalek dared to attack them, aiming to prove that all was random chance and to cast aspersion on the miracles of the Exodus.
In short, Amalek lived to disprove the concept of "Hashgachah" - Divine Providence - and it was this that made the nation so dangerous to the fabric of the Jewish people.
Well, before giving the class, I went to learn with a boy for his bar mitzvah.  He had just broken his wrist, a week after getting his cast off for the breakage of his elbow.  I couldn't believe it.  But then his mom said to him, "Why don't you tell the Rabbi what really happened?"

My young student told me that the first time he broke his elbow, he was embarrassed to say that it had broken in a pretty uncool way, so he made up a story that he had broken it while playing goalie in a soccer.  But the other day, he actually was taking goalie and blocking a pass - and broke his wrist!
His mother told him that a lesson could be learned here - you thought you'd tell everyone you broke your arm that way, and God actually made your words come true.  I said, "Did you think it was a coincidence that you told me this story today?  I'm on my way to teach a class about finding the hand of God in our lives!"
Have a wonderful Purim!